I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. We both just finished graduate school and moved to Chicago together. At the outset of our relationship when we talked about our sexual histories, he mentioned he keeps a sexual personal history chart for safety reasons. However, some of the entries in his chart are like "where he first did it" with a girl. He hasn't had any sort of extreme sexual history and I suspect it's more about remembering than being safe about STDs, etc. That said, that's kind of scary that he feels the need to remember these people and keep this list around but on the other hand, I know this list will always be in his head anyway so should I be scared of it being on paper? or am I just being insecure about his history in general? I guess I don't feel the need to write these things down so I have no idea why he does!
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Hell yeah that's weird. REALLY WEIRD! If he is worried about an STD go get a freakin' STD test done. If it comes back clean he is safe and can forget all the girls in his past anyways. If he's clean now, they didn't give him something. Then go get yourself checked. If you're both clean then you should stay clean. Seriously he sounds creepy to me. It sounds more like his trophy for what he has done. He seems very immature and hung up on the past. I would tell him to get rid of the list. I might have ended when I found out about the list though. It's too weird.0