I hear so much about lowering expectations. That a man ought to love you more. That sexually attractive husbands aren't reliable, but that emotional support that a female friend would supply is asking too much. That men don't want to listen to you, aren't good at domestic duties and may not be socially skilled. That they mostly want sex and being taken care of, but that you shouldn't want them to be sexy or do anything for you in return. Etc. Much of this commentary comes from men, too?
So what IS there to hope for realistically?
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I'd like to know the answer to that too.1