This past weekend I started using a dating app and I just don't know how to go about describing my cancer history on the description box. I am in remission and because I feel great, I felt it was time to open the dating door. The issue is that I can't have kids due to the type of cancer and the option of having kids has vanished. I feel is my duty to let potential matches know about it. But when is it the right time to let them know? Should I include it on description box (I don't want to scare them off right before they get to know me) but I don't want to feel like I am withholding information. I just need some insight, opinions, suggestions...
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You are 30-35. Most guys that you would be meeting would most likely be divorcees and already have kids with the ex wife. Unless you are going for really young men who may want to have a family, I wouldn't worry about it. If I were single and dating a woman in her 30's I wouldn't even think that she would still want to have kids.
Do not let someone into your business unless you trust and care about them. I'd wait until you actually enter into a relationship with someone before I disclosed any information about my past.1