Okay. We've both just got out of our first serious relationships and I don't know lol I'm terrible at this. I literally have no game anymore which doesn't bug me, I want someone to want me how I am, no fronts and she seems the same. I let her know early that I'm very uncomfortable with affection until I really trust them and slowly but surely we've become affectionate over the past month. We go on dates and such and talk about relationship stuff often and how we work. I don't text much because I think it's worthless communication when I see Her as often as I do and can speak face to face so I use it mainly to schedule. Weve also established early on we don't want to rush into things. I'm very reserved and have been described as cold/intimidating by just about everyone until they know me well and she's pretty reserved as well, just a bit warmer. We play around a lot physically like play fighting and piggy back rides etc. We talk for hours when we're together just bullshitting and sharing our thoughts. There is sexual tension there and we've even brought up sex quite a bit in our recent conversations. She remembers just about everything I've ever said and listens to me very intently. I want someone to be "best friend" worthy before I completely invest myself in her and she's mentioned things of the sort as well. I'm really starting to develop feelings for her and she's been very patient with me warming up to her but I can't help but feel I've discouraged her/pushed her away a little. I really don't want to screw my chances with her because God damn she's incredible. I believe nothing worthwhile has ever happened in a couple days and I'm happy with the way things are playing out. I just think she may feel like she's walking on eggshells or that she's losing interest. I tend to overthink things and I don't know Were both only seeing eachother and have been seeing eachother for a month now and I just want to know if I'm doing alright.
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