Im turning 22 in a few month. In high school, I had a girlfriend for almost two years and she wanted to wait until she was older. We ended up breaking for something different and I've only been on a few dates in the last 2-3 years.
What can I do to lose it? Im not into really slutty girls, but if I want to get married I know I'll be judged for being a virgin. Should I try and lose it as quickly as possible? Im in medical school now and in the future Im sure there will be opportunities but I feel ashamed.
My ego is shot. I have been going to the gym for 2-3 years now and changed my clothes and everything but I'll never have womens respect until I have sex. Please help
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I'd really be surprised if any women would judge you for being a virgin. She might be a little surprised but she will not think less of you. In fact, it would make me respect you more because I would know that you see sex as something special you share with a special person. Don't go lose it as quickly as possible - wait until you find a special girl and enjoy experiencing something new with someone who cares about you.1