I confessed to a male buddy of mine that I "like" him and he was super nervous and shaking... then he was saying he only sees me as a friend but then he told me that I'm attractive... then he also told me that he finds this other girl attractive but he's deciding if he should be in a relationship or not... then he tells me that he doesn't want a rewlationship in general and that there's possibly a chance later on in the future but that we should just be friends for now but it could change later on, but that he also finds this other woman attractive at the same time and then he was saying its his choice, but then he was saying his work family and himself is his priority... He's also very protective of me as well... and this other woman appears to be wanting citizenship cuz her visa is expired...
Is he letting me down easy? Or does he like me as more than a friend if he hasn't cut any contact with me? Also why was he shaking so much when I told him how I felt towards him?
- likes me as more than a friend but keeping options open/ considering me for future maybeVote A
- prefers the other girl/ might get with herVote B