I've been seeing this guy for over 2 months. I have noticed lately he stopped doing the things he used to. He used to text me all the time, call me, and now I get a couple texts during the day if I'm lucky, a couple after work and then a couple to say goodnight. I have tried to talk to him about this but it's always he's tired from work or he fell asleep or some excuse. Then when I don't bother reaching out to him he gets offended. Why should I bother trying if he doesn't? There are guys who will make the effort he doesn't. He's not even doing the bare minimum. I am thinking about saying something one last time but if things don't change I'm just going to move on and not say another word.
Advice as to what I can say? It's like he has stopped doing hardly anything and I can't just sit here collecting dust!
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If he's not putting in the effort that you want, then I would move on. All though if texting truly is the issue I wouldn't be so worried about it, I mean yeah it sucks that he isn't doing it as often as he did, but Is that really something that truly bothers you? If so- amongst other things then you already know the answer you don't want the chances of being with someone who already isn't pleasing you 2 months in!0
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