Is this always the case or do you just stop texting ex girlfriends and girls you used to have feelings for once you're in a relationship? This guy that used to like me last year and who I ended up liking back but external factors made it impossible to be together decided that we should stay friends. He says he loves how my texting conversations with him are always about deep and meaningful things since most of his texting and regular conversations with girls are surface level... but since he was officially in a relationship has started to ignore all my texts and is being distant. I would have understood if I was his ex-girlfriend or a girl that was trying to "come on him" but he is the one who stressed he wants to be friends with me, all my texts to him have been on various life or philosophical matters, and my last text was congratulating him on finding the right girl-- and yet, still no response and distant conversation in person... is this normal for you guys?
- yes, its normalVote A
- no, its not normalVote B
- Its normal to stop being involved as much with fwbs and exes- but not chic friendsVote C
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Hmm. Me personally? I don't care if he has friends that are girls.. But it worries me if I knew they had been really close together in that situation before where dating was possible, before dating me. If he was up talking to me during the early mornings of the night and her at the same time. I would be fucking pissed. Probably would question why I'm in a relationship with him in the first place.
That being said, you can have lots of chick friends, just have a time and day when you contact them.. just don't do it when your talking to me1