Guys: what do you think about a first date with a girl who's shy?

I'm really shy when getting to know people.

I can't keep eye contact long, I blush, I get nervous.

I went on a date with this guy (first date, basically first time hanging out), and I was shy.

Will this prevent him from asking me out again?

He just gives me butterflies.


Most Helpful Guy

  • You have to make it very clear that in spite of the butterflies, you're still into him.

    This is really important, that you put some effort into making it clear and obvious because if you were shy or reluctant he might well be figuring 'oh, I guess she didn't like me.' You're probably like me, you need time to get to know people before you can open up a bit, so you need to make sure that you have more time together in order to get to that stage.


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What Guys Said 1

  • Tell him you will be shy and maybe he will understand.


What Girls Said 1

  • No but make an effort to let him know you want him to ask you out again