When we argue at home he screams so loud that the neighbor texts me and we even had a noise complaint one time... And he screams over the dumbest fights. Do you think he will ever learn how to tone it down and control his anger issues? I just don't know what to do anymore. We have been dating for over two and a half years. He never yelled at me like this the first year of dating, it started happening when I moved away from home to live with him. His family actually asked me if my bf has yelled at me yet and they advised me to step out to another room when he's mad... I just feel like I shouldn't have to do that because he is a grown man, he is not a child. I'm 21 and he is 29. Anyone have any experience with this?
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It's sounds like he may need to see/talk to a professional about his anger issues, the fact his OWN family warned you to step out of the room is a clue that he has a history of escalation in a physical manner. This is something that can be worked on but it has to be him to put in the effort to want to change. He has to be willing to explore why he has such anger (normally its unresolved issues stemming from childhood, or a chemical disorder). I urge you to be very causious this can escalate to a very very violent situation for you.2
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