I'm a 30 year old girl and seem to be attracted to and attract younger guys. I mean younger as in anything from around 20 and above. I just personally find them better looking than the majority of guys my own age or older (no offence to any guys who are 30 and over I just tend to naturally notice younger guys before guys my own age). What are your thoughts on this? I don't see a problem now as I have hardly aged much at all and look younger than what I am. But I just want your opinion on a few things:
1. What happens in a few years when I'm ageing and he's not? I don't want to look like I'm old and he's young lol.
2. What attracts guys in their 20s to older girls anyway? Is it just some sort of fantasy to sleep with an older more experienced girl?
3. Would you date an older woman or do you prefer to stick to your own age or younger?
4. How old is too old?
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Let me say that 30 is not even "older". Secondly age is nothing but a number.
A friend of mine is 48. She is a Gogo dancer. She looks like she is 30. She is not attracted to guys her own age. They are mostly too old for. It's not physical. It's mentally. She does not only look 30. In her mind she might be even younger.
Guys in their 20's really like her. Even after finding out she is 48. So don't worry about it so much. "What if this?" and "what if that?" only makes you not being able to enjoy life
Are there guys that have fantasy's about older women? Probably. And who cares. Some guys like blond. Is that a problem? No. Some guys like short women. Is that a problem? No.
Just go for it.2