A year ago my friend introduced me to his wife's friend at their wedding. We had actually met before and had a great time that night but I soon moved away. Soon after she told me on Facebook that our friends planned to set us up on a double date with them but never did. I suggested we do something next time I was back in town and she agreed but I didn't know when that would be. We kept sending very long messages to each other on Facebook for a couple months and we both shared a lot about ourselves. I called to ask her out one weekend when I'd be in town. She couldn't but wanted to try again later. Eventually we both became busier with school and lost touch. The whole time I was trying to figure out if I liked her or not. Some things about her are awesome and other things make me lose interest. I figured we hadn't interacted in person enough to be sure.
I saw her once in summer and there were a couple other failed plans to meet. She still texted me every few months but asked the same questions.
Recently I texted her but she didn't recognize my number. She just liked a couple of my FB posts so I knew she hadn't forgotten me completely. She asked when I'd be in town. I told her I would be the next weekend. She would be gone with her best friend but said she'd be back before I left and wanted to meet up. I called that weekend and she said they wanted to stop and say hi on her way home. I had seen her friend with her in pictures before but never met her. I remember thinking her friend seemed more like my type, but didn't give it any more thought. When they stopped by she acted differently and forgot things I've told her many times. I realized after they left I was definitely more interested in her friend. It felt like the first girl saw us more as friends anyway. They both want do something with me when they come to my town in spring. Her friend seemed to be interested but seemed to hold back at times. I'd love to hear a woman's interpretation and suggestions. Thanks
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Tread lightly, my friend. I'm just afraid someone's feelings might get bruised. Does sound like girl A. likes u but maybe he life is too busy to take on a committed relationship. With that being said, I feel that u find an interest in girl B. because the two of u have things in common. Bottom line u r not in a relationship with either one. I suggest getting to know them. both better and picking the one u find more suitable to u. I hope this helps at least a little :)1
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