This guy who flirts with me texts with me he says he's seeing someone and don't have a girlfriend. But they've been on and off for seven years. At first we were talking and things were great. Now they've gone slow which he says he wants because he don't want a relationship. When I see him he's always talking to me and flirting. When I text him he sometimes us really strange he'll reply or just go dead... Wtf? Should I just get over him. But he flirt all the time and says he wants to see how my personally is. Then he says he wants to take me to the movie... I'm so confused but I really like him
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I think you should just get over him to be honest, it sounds like he has no idea what he wants.
And to answer your question, its basically a moral middle ground where you haven't defined what you are with someone or made it exclusive, but you have probably been on three plus dates with more planned, texting and likely sex. BUT, you can still technically be seeing other people (but I think many would be upset regardless of the DTR if they were seeing someone else after a month of dating and such)1