So I'm dating this guy that has only ever dated girls with blonde hair and blue eyes, and for some reason he's with me. I happen to be the exact opposite of the type he usually goes for & I guess I'm feeling a little insecure about that. What's making him stick around if I don't fit his stereotypical image of beauty? Have you ever been attracted to someone who deviated from your general type? If so, what made you like him or her that you'd deviate away from that? :) Thanks so much because this question has been on my mind a lot lately. Please don't just say "personality" because I want a very specific answer! ;)
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I usually go for guys more outgoing but I was attracted to my bf even though he is a total introvert. I can't really explain it I thought he was kind of cute then I started talking to him and it's like he had something I liked that I couldn't put my finger on that I didn't see in other guys and it made him unique and interesting.
Also I have had bad relationship experiences before with more outgoing guys so that may have turned me off extroverts. The guy your dating could have had a bad experience so sub consciously he is now trying to be with the opposite type that he had the experience with.0