Do guys think that being strong is attractive? Or do they like to feel like the girl needs protecting as she is weak and want to protect her?
- Strong girls are more attractive.62% (5)69% (11)67% (16)Vote
- Weak girls are more attractive.0% (0)19% (3)12% (3)Vote
- Either, I don't mind.38% (3)12% (2)21% (5)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
In my experience, strong = "I don't need you." So, ok, then I won't bother pursuing you. But I don't like calling a needy girl weak. Because in my opinion they're supposed to be a bit needy. They don't like being alone and want a man in their life who can make them smile and take them places and talk about stuff and earn money. I can do that. I like being needed, in fact, that's basically my need. If she doesn't need me, then she doesn't want me either. But what's worse still, most "tough" girls exude so much pretentiousness that it's just really off-putting. So not only is she not tough, she's too afraid to admit it and is ready to do battle with anyone that offers help. I don't want to deal with that. I want to love my girl not fight her. But truly strong girls, those girls are as unshakable as a boulder at the bottom of a ravine. I actually like them too. I wouldn't mind dating them but I don't really have anything to bring to the table unless they just want a husband as reliable as they are. But they have true strength and often don't know they're strong. They just think they're normal.0