A week ago my boyfriend and I cleared out our schedules for today so that we could spend the whole day together because he has been out of town for the past 4 days. But overnight it sleeted and the roads are dangerous to drive on. And we live in Texas so no one has the right stuff to drive in this. Anyway, he keeps insisting that he come to see me today, but it's a 30 minute drive from his house and I don't want him to get in an accident getting to me.
I know he cleared out his whole day for nothing if he doesn't come and I feel bad, but is it wrong for me to not let him come?
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Express your concern and let him make the decision. What you say:"I don't think the roads are safe" what he hears:"I don't think you are man enough to drive in this stuff"
You might want to put it this way "I'd hate myself if you were hurt just coming out to see me. There's plenty of time for us to be together." Make it about you, and hope for the best.0