One of my friends has been talking to this guy for a couple months now. She's already head over heels in love with him and it's understanding why. He's everything she's ever been looking for, and I'd know because we've known each other our entire lives.
The thing is, she's a very weak individual. He's done nothing to her to make her weak. She's always been that way. But, he told her that things were moving a little fast and he wanted some space.
She sent me the screen shots of their conversation and this was the last message that was sent to her. I am just looking for a male perspective to see if she still has a chance with him because I want things to work out for her.
He said, "All you are doing is pushing me away even further with messages telling me that you miss me and that you need me. I understand that you have feelings but you need to respect the fact that I need some space or before long I am just going to be gone for good. Trust me when I tell you that you really need to not pressure me the way you are with those messages."
Obviously, I could slap her but what's done is done. However, if she completely cuts off communication with him and doesn't send anything else until he's ready to talk, is there still hope for them? Because they have so much chemistry and they connect so well! I don't want to see her hurt.
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Yes, she just needs a bit of damage control right now. She is just totally freaking out and can't not text him. The more she texts the more he is turned off and won't reply, so she texts even more to be reassured he is still interested and this just makes it worse and worse. She needs to just say sorry and acknowledge she was just over her head and she will chill out.0
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