I've been told that I instantly put guys in the friend zone and give off the I'm not interested vibe. This kind of shocks me because I just am being myself when it comes to guys, but at the same time I don't have any guys jumping at the chance to date me either, so it might make sense. What am I doing to make guys think I'm not interested at all when obviously I am?
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The answer may lie in your body language and, or tone of voice. It's not always what you say, but it's how you say it: the emotion, enthusiasm, or the lack thereof, behind it which may determine how approachable you are to guys.
To appear more sociable, smile more and project happiness in the presence of guys who is of interest to you. Initiate small talk; nothing wrong with that nowadays. Also, make eye contact here and there. Without at least one of such signs, the average guy may simply be reluctant to approach you for date.1