he's soooo tall and pretty big, i'm so short and small, i feel awkward with him, i've never dated someone that tall and big, it kinda lowers my self esteem, making me feel so short and weak, i dont even dare to not wear high heels, i dont really like wearing them that much so i have to do it even though i dont want to. And i dont get it why didn't he choose a taller girl than me? dont i make him feel huge next to me?
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He probably didn't chose a taller girl than you because he likes you, doesn't matter if you're a giant or a midget.
Do you feel ashamed for dating him because you think the 2 of you together look ridiculous? You shouldn't care abou how you look but honestly, a talk guy and a short girl is usually very cute, and that's the general opinion.
It's normal that you feel weak next to him since he's so much bigger than you but that shouldn't lower your self esteem. No matter what you do, he will always be tall and you will always be short, and there's nothing wrong with that, the sooner you understand the better. Don't try to be something you're not, and don't wear heels if you don't like it, he probably wouldn't aprove you using something you don't like.
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