this guy and I got along really well when we met at a party and talked for hours. we had all these plans to hang out. but after our 2nd real date. I made the mistake of kissing him goodnight.
he is the single worst kisser I have ever experienced in my life. it was actually a deal breaking kiss. I get embarrassed just thinking about it.
he is older than me, naturally I thought he would know what he was doing by now!
we kissed. then I mentally freaked out at how awkward he was. so I tried to lead him into a more normal kiss. he wouldn't take it. he kept leading with his weird awkward snake kiss. naturally I pulled away, then I tried a close mouth kiss, try and see if maybe he just sucked at frenching. he was awkward all the time, every type of kiss I tried.
how do I let this guy down now? I really can't date him. let alone see him again, he makes me feel incredibly awkward now.
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If you have such pointless little expectations in all areas of your relationship with guys then you will probably end up unhappy and alone. You need to cut the guy some slack, maybe he think's your kisses are weird, but I'm betting you he wouldn't break up over something so pointless and insignificant. You not dating a guy for being a bad kisser is like a guy not dating a girl because she cannot cook his favorite meal. That would be a completely asshole-ish thing to do for such a minor detail. If you really can't stand his kissing then just tell him and he can re-adjust his style or whatever. It wouldn't really be that difficult! You really need an attitude adjustment, be lucky he even kisses you, because based on your personality I wouldn't want to.2