So this guy asked me out persistently for a month before we were able to make time to meet up. It was a good first date. The next morning he text me say hope I got home safe and blah blah and then a week later texted just chatted. We live in Manhattan, he works in finance in Manhattan and I know from my friends when it is busy season, these people are really busy working till 1am and what not. So we haven't gotten together yet for another date. I was out with my friends for my b-day and I didn't actually want him to come - i just want to show interest and put the ball in his court so I invited him and he text me back with three texts saying sorry twice and he was at lunch with his sister and hope I had fun. Then the work week cam and still nothing (but even when he was persistently texting I didn't really hear form him during the work week). So later that week I asked if maybe he wanted to get a drink next week and he almost immediatley responded saying "ya def I've been working so hard like up to 1 every night this week and thats why I haven't asked you out again" so the next week came and i just felt desperate asking him to do that so I said "hi sorry but now im the one thats busy and can't meet up haha. maybe some other time" and he said "haha no worries im so busy this week still we'll find time soon". First.) did i seem desperate doing this (uuuugh) 2.) my firends are giving me all different feed back cause they dont know him and some are like he's just not that into you and others think he is. Would love some feedback on if he is interested and i should just be patient or if he's just not that into me.
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