I am no longer seeing him, but his behaviour bothers me. We went on dates but we weren't in a relationship yet. He was going out with other women, and I still go out with other guys. We haven't known each that long, less than two months.
He started getting jealous that I had dates with other guys. I asked if he just wanted us to date each other and not other people. He said that he's not ready to settle down yet. He is still getting to know me and other girls.
Last night he blew up on me because he saw me on Tinder. If he saw me on Tinder he obvious uses it as well. I told him we both agreed that we weren't in a relationship yet. So I have every right to date other men as well as him.
He told me it's okay for him to do it, but not me. I told him we were done then. I am just trying to understand this mindset.
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WOW really !!
That in my opinion is the poster boy for controlling and manipulative behavior. You did well to cut this guy out of your life. You can put your mind at ease by telling yourself that his behavior would only worsen the longer the two of you hung out. His actions seem to be self serving. While he can do pretty much as he pleases you are to do as he says ( uhh not no , but ohh h€ll no ) men like that are why all men are stereo typed as controlling. Sorry hon he is a douch bag , and you saw through his BS. Good for you.1