I've been in a friends with benefits with this shy guy I'm developing feelings for and I'm just trying to understand what it all means. I'm mainly worried about ruining our friendship by letting him know how I feel about him.
My question is what does it mean when a shy guy hooks up with someone? I kinda feel like he doesn't go around picking up girls, so sex might really mean something to him.
Thanks in advance, everyone! :)
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Shy people aren't are a homogenous lump that can be generalized easily.
Everyone is different when it comes to sex, but for me personally, I would not have been able to 'hook up' without some investiture of feelings. The mere act would create some. I'd say he probably has feelings for you in some form.
A shy person involved in a friends with benefits situation just seems so completely alien to me. Is he actually really shy, or just mildly introverted? A lot of really extroverted people will call their normal friends 'shy' when they don't get up and dance on restaurant tables in public. Perspective.0