This is going to be relatively long, so I aplogize. Right now, I am in an LDR (long distance relationship) with a girl across the country. We both love eachother very much and plan to meet in the future. Bottom line is, she's absolutely gorgeous. She is extremely beautiful and could get any guy she wanted. Me? I am relatively attractive I suppose. I have moderate acne and lots of leftover red marks. Those cannot be seen a whole lot in pictures I've shown her, though. I don't have a six pack, and I'm socially awkward and have no experience with girls whatsoever. My question is, why would she go after me when she can do a lot better? I am not complaining, I just wish I could see what she sees in me. I suppose I am insecure. I am afraid if she sees my acne or notices my awkwardness, she'll be less attracted. I don't feel good enough for her. I am a confident guy and all, I just feel too lucky. What do you think? Thanks!
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Please, don't talk to her about your insecurities because you will end up driving her away from you. And... don't ever ask her why does she love you. There is no "why".
She may bring up all of your positive qualities, but even then your question will remain unanswered, since love is a very perplexing thing.0