So I have been in the situation referred above, now after 3 months I still cannot bring myself to trust that a guy is not lying or hiding something important from me. And since I am still a virgin this fear obviously holds me back even more.
I feel that every guy that approaches me is just interested in sex, not really in me as a person who has opinions and a brain.
I am really struggling because I don't want a casual relationship and I don't want to deal with this type of guys either, it makes me really anxious.
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I think you should professionally talk to someone about it. I know, I know, you probably don't feel as though you need to but you do. They can help you open up and realize that not every guy is just out for sex. It will be a tricky recovery but it will help. Look for therapists, explore and find one you feel comfortable talking to. You show signs that you could have developed anxiety, and it could end up holding you back in life. Go to a therapist and find out some coping mechanisms that help you. I have anxiety and go to therapy, and on my own with a little help found stuff that works for me. There is nothing wrong with getting a little help, to help you trust again. It is not something that can be easily done on your own.0