I'm a guy and 26. Please save the cliches of confidence and all that. women care about looks too, everyone does, you know it I know it, everyone knows it.
I'm skinny which is okay since I can work out which I am doing. I'm going to business school and I work part time at mcdonald's (you gotta do what you gotta do) I recently started my own skateboarding / clothing brand.
My problem is that most girls that I'm interest in drop this line on me"you're perfect, to bad you're ugly" or some sort of backhanded compliment.
I'm on medication and I know there are other things in life but looking good seems to be my strongest goal. yeah its superficial but well you can't solve a problem unless you're honest about it.
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You have gotten multiple responses on the fact that you aren't ugly, so perhaps, it was an issue with the gals eyes that told you this.
In all honesty, I was a young skinny girl in my twenties as well. What helped me was realizing how I perceive myself is how others see me. If I am confident then others will see me as such. If I think I am above average looking then I will project a sense of confidence that others will see. Truly, it's all in your hands.
Just be thankful that you received these opinions and didn't pursue anything. It certainly sounds like it is their attitude which is ugly.2