Or a single dad for that matter? Why or why not?
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Sorry, I don’t mean to offend, but I would absolutely not date a single father at this phase in my life and I don’t ever intend on doing so.
All children are blessings and I hate to say it but, that child would feel like baggage. Even though I logically recognize a child is much greater than that term. That child means a woman they used to f*ck is always going to be an active, primary part of their life simply because they share a child together. I am really not interested in the possible drama or friction that may cause. I don’t want to have to deal with any baby mama drama. I don’t want to feel like I have to rush my maturing/growth process because there will be a kid around whom I need to make a good impression for. Most of all, I don’t want to worry about getting attached to a child I have no legal rights to.
Generally, I just feel like I didn’t be careful sexually and make sure I didn’t get pregnant just so I could end up taking care of another woman’s seed. And while single moms and single dads claim that they don’t want the person they’re dating to take care of their child, they’re not keeping it real. Eventually if you plan on getting married, they’re going to want their child to be treated with the same amount of love and care other children with the new person would receive.4