He tells me everyday that I'm cheating on him when I'm not! His exes cheated on him but I would never do that because I know how much it hurts... Why does he accuse me of cheating? How can I prove to him I'm not?
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Usually when people cheat, they end up getting super paranoid and start blaming their partner for doing the very thing that THEY'RE actually doing. Wouldn't surprise me if he's cheating on you.
If he isn't cheating, then he's simply extremely insecure. Which is not good. You can't prove to him that you aren't cheating, that would require huge amounts of effort that probably wouldn't lead anywhere. Basically you would have to let him control your life by knowing exactly where you are 24/7 and with whom. And that's not healthy.
To be honest, it doesn't sound like he's really ready for a relationship. This will not end well unless he gets over his insecurities, and it doesn't seem like that's going to happen anytime soon. My advice to you would be to break up. He'll keep accusing you, and at some point he might end up becoming a control freak. Trust is essential in a relationship, and without it, it simply won't work.1