OK I am starting to really like this douchebag that is absolutely a player, but I think dating him wouldn't be so bad. He "likes" me but I am a really lonely person so I think it'd be nice to not be single and curb this players ways. Am I a dumbass?
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Unfortunately, you cannot change him. The biggest reason he is most likely a player is because as a child he did not receive enough attention therefore, the way he compensates for that is through the attention of many girls. Trying to change something that is rooted in his subconscious is like trying to change a rock into water, it's impossible. He has to want to not be a player in order for there to be even a glimpse of hope. The other question is would you be hurt knowing that the love or at minimum your passion/likeness for him is never going to be enough for him? Knowing how girls are I would imagine you do not want that. You deserve much better, someone who loves you as you and who wants all of your love, and the love you give to him means everything to him. Not just a hole he can drill (figuratively speaking). Do not waste your time on someone such as that, have faith that the one is out there.0