He loved me, I loved him... he gave me a choice and I was scared and chose the wrong one.
We still talk and nd he has admitted that I hurt him... now he sends mixed signals and chats on and off then tells me he needs space then flirts a little, jokes about getting married and having kids together... we talk about if we were were to see eachother again he wants to have mind blowing sex and does t want me to even say hi to him.. he just wants me to walk up and kiss him, not a word. Then tells me again later that he needs space... and he doesn't want to talk about his feelings with me unless it's face that face... how do I just win his heart back?
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Everyone reacts differently to being hurt. My now girlfriend hurt me a few months back; despite us having unreal chemistry and it being absolutely crystal clear that we adored each other, she slept with someone at a party. My bad move was not telling her exactly what I felt, but it killed me inside that she'd done it.
Fast forward 4 months and now I'm closer than ever with her; what happened hurt me, but I've forgiven and forgotten.
This guy sounds a bit strange to me though in all honesty. Mind games are never a good sign, though; just as a personality trait. Maybe sit him down and face-to-face have a talk with him; tell him exactly what you want and how you regret what happened, tell him why especially, and then go from there.0