How was it- or is it- and why did you stay for a while?
I am in my most regrettable one. He is taking me for granted. We break up and get back because I let him in. I know it's stupid because I suffered with him a lot and I missed the chance of being with other guys. Yesterday we spoke and I suggested we go out and he said yes, only to totally forget about me. I didn't want to text him because he knows he doesn't give me the time I deserve-we barely see each other.
It's the same thing every time. I have feelings for him but I am sick of this.
Are you stuck with someone like this?
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I've been through a few relationships that just made me sick. You stay because you think it'll get better or be like before and it's just a phase, and the feelings are still there.
If he knows he doesn't give you the time you deserve, then he knows he's being shitty and doesn't care. Do you really have feelings for this guy, or do you hope that he will start to treat you right to prove that you deserve it?
The thing is, you don't need him to change his ways to affirm that you deserve to be treated better- walking away is the scary way, but it's the best way to prove to yourself that you are worth more without relying on him to prove it for you. Because he won't. He's using you to validate himself, and he doesn't deserve another minute of your time.
Make yourself a pros and cons list. Everything that hurts you about him is worth two of what he adds to your life, because chances are you can find a guy who will give you the good without the bad. Does he bring sunshine into your life? If not, toss him out. You wouldn't leave a vase of dead flowers in your room.
Don't play the martyr- it will be the hardest thing ever and you'll want to go back, but when you do you'll feel so strong. It's your damn life, how are you going to spend it- worrying over a guy who has no idea of how amazing you are?
I know it's hard, but you can do what's right for you. Good luck!0