We were talking about friends and such and I told her one of best friends is a girl, we have been friends for almost 10 years now. I did make the mistake of asking her out 7ish years ago but she said no and I am so thankful she did as I now only see her as a friend.
she seemed troubled by this when I mentioned it and in retrospect I wish I had not said anything, but she did ask if I had thought of her romantically and I am bad at lying...
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Deal breaker. I wouldn't date a guy like that. I'm a very picky and insecure person, I've already been cheated on by both my ex bfs. So I'd move on to the next one in this situation. I've seen too many novelas where this scenario ends up in a love story for the guy and the best friend, but the other girl (me) ends up getting hurt and cheated on.
I wouldn't go out with the guy or if we were already dating, I'd probably break up.0