We've been dating for 8 months. He works all week and only has saturdays free. We did hangout the past two weekends straight even took a trip to another state for 4 days 2 weeks ago. He didn't ask to hangout with me this weekend because he says he has plans which is drinking at a bar and i dont drink but he then said maybe we can meet up after his plans. Should i be upset that he didn't invite me to. hangout on the only day he is free? Or he needs his space and needs yo. hangouy with his friends without me?
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I don't think you should, but you can't help it because emotions cannot be controlled easily. It takes a lot of time and effort in order to learn how to control your emotions.
Even if I take the time to write a detailed answer explaining the reasons why you shouldn't be upset, you will keep feeling that way because you can't help it.
Anyway, just because he can't hang out with you this weekend, doesn't mean he is not interested in you.
He may feel the need to spend some time alone with his friends, there is nothing "bad" about it. Instead of clinging to him, why don't you make plans with your friends? Go out and have some fun instead of thinking about "what ifs".1