Im 22 he is 45 ?

i have this guy friend he called me babe joked about marrying me said i looked nice

i really like him should i tell him how i feel?

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a lot of negative feedback...
im so shocked how negative and small minded some people are

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What Guys Said 10

  • as i am right up there with your friend, here are my thoughts...

    23 years IS a big difference. However if true love grew out of this it would not matter. That said you both need to realize that there are differences and challenges:

    1) you do not have the same cultural youth to appreciate together
    2) there will be a time when medically he cannot do what you do
    3) many people will question the two of you
    4) it might impact whether you can have children

    All of those can have answers which are acceptable to you, but you need to think about them. The answers might mean it is not even worth going there.

    My two cents...

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  • Sure go for it!!!

    As long as you understand he probably has 10 good years before he starts having penile erection problems. Then you'll have to take care of him in his old age. At least him and your dad will be the best of friends!!!

    Great Choice!

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  • why not? whatever blows your skirt up

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  • Umm whatever floats the boats ^^

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  • Go for it. Age is only a number, if this guy makes you happy have fun and see where is goes, it may be long term of just last a few months, better to do than wonder for the rest of your life what you may have missed?

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  • Yeah ok...
    Marry your own father maybe.

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  • No, he's probably in the same age as your dad's friend.

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  • Just start hooking up with him the next time you get drunk together.

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  • You don't find it weird to be dating somebody who's old enough to be your dad?

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  • If you like the guy and he likes you tell him how you feel hey what ya got lose

    My friend she is 25 calls me babe and i am 47 so i don't see much of
    difference she even calls me handsome

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    • i just have this connection with him

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    • thats a lovely story !! i dont know what to do ! i really like him.. i hope i didn't mess anything up !! dont know how to respond

    • I would say let things flow as they are
      when he holds your hand tell him oh i love that
      he may be wanting to hear that you or look up
      and smile and make complete eye contact with him

What Girls Said 3

  • Sure... just remember, 25 years from now he'll be 70 and you'll be 47.
    I'm just saying, your age difference is maybe a bit too much if you're looking for something serious.

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  • WHY

    JUST WHY

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  • I wouldn't have dated a guy that age at 22 but that's just me, if you like him talk to him about it go from there.

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