What do you think a guy mostly looks for first? Personality or Looks?

I never really noticed, but I am curious to find out. What do they look for first?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • We look for them both, but see looks immediately while personality takes a lifetime to judge in full. Intially, looks are the first and only impression we have of a personality,

    A girl who is modestly dressed may have self-respect.

    A girl with no ring is probably single.

    A girl who takes care of her teeth probably uses her smile often.

    A woman who stays a healthy weight amidst an overconsuming culture probably has some self-control.

    I've stuck with positive examples, but guys may recognize negative ones too, which conciously or subconsiously disuade us from pursuing a woman we see.

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What Guys Said 5

  • Looks 1st UNLESS you are already friends with this/that person. BUT IF IT'S A total stranger looks>personaluity any day since they'd have never approached you if you weren't easy on their eyes ^^

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  • Poll would have been amazing here, but,

    Looks initially draw us in, Personality keeps us there.

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  • ... personally... i look... looks :-P

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  • Honestly, we mostly pay attention to looks first then personality. Everyone's different but this is usually the case 9 times out of 10

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  • Both balanced.

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What Girls Said 2

  • I feel like you can't really judge on personality right away by just looking at a girl. I think most are initially drawn in by a girls looks, and her personality can change how much he likes her or not.

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  • First looks then personality.

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