If in general you are insecure in yourself... either looks or personality wise, than you should not try to date anyone.
Agree or disagree. and please explain your answer
- I Agree, if you're insecure, you shouldn't date12% (3)32% (7)21% (10)Vote
- I disagree, it's ok to date if you're insecure58% (15)45% (10)52% (25)Vote
- It depends (please explain)30% (8)23% (5)27% (13)Vote
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I disagree for the most part. If it's just basic insecurity, like self conscious about looks, then why the hell should they not date? Dating would actually HELP.
I am insecure about a number of things, I am not afraid to admit it. If I were to have a girlfriend, it would help me see myself in a better light (not that I NEED one in order to do so, just that it would help). Like for example if I ever feel ugly, I would think "Well my girlfriend is attracted to me, and she loves me, so I can't be that ugly" and my self confidence would go up.
To say that a person shouldn't be allowed to date until they're super confident and happy about themselves (because it's just SO easy to get over any anxiety/self esteem issues) is both ignorant and contradictive.2