Speculating about the type of girl I feel I would like, I am thinking it's quite possible that I am attracted to the "bad girl" type, sort of the like the reverse of girls going for "bad boys".
I mean a dominant girl both in and out of the bed room who takes charge, swears a lot. People regard her as a bitch. Is adventurous, fearless, and thrilling. Very confident and takes no shit. Not very romantic at the basic level. Somewhat abusive and isn't afraid to yell at me and push me in the mud. Is physically and emotionally stronger than me (isn't afraid to start a fight with a guy). Teases me and messes around with me a lot. But still cares about me and is my girlfriend at the basic level, so almost somewhat like a love/hate relationship.
This girl would be quite different from me. Not that I am necessarily weak, but you know, I am kind of sensitive, romantic, etc. So I feel like due to the high amount of contrast, there would be a lot of spark in this sort of relationship.
Anyhow, is it viable for me to want a girl like this (basically, do girls like this exist)?
If so, what would my best bet be to encounter these sort of girls.
Most Helpful Girl
girls like that exist, but I wouldn't say they are that easy to find. Especially since you want bad but caring girl. There are bad girls and there are caring sensitive girls, those extremes are easier to find. But I think for you it's important that part that you should aim for - don't go for bad bad girl - she will break your heart. But make sure you go for bad girl that has a heart. And I don't see anything wrong for going for this kind of girl if you really know what you want. If you believe that is what will make you happy, then it's not like you have a choice. Heart wants what the heart wants.1
Most Helpful Guy
I kind of like submissive bad girls.
Generally my observation would be that the girls you describe tend to go for guys who are at least as 'bad' as them'.3