A reacher is someone who is dating someone who is out of their league/more attractive than they are
A settler is someone who settles for so someone less attractive than they are.
Which are you?
Most Helpful Girl
I don't know. I guess I've dated more physically attractive guys, but it's true looks only go so far. I feel like I actually would've been settling if I'd stayed with one of them. The guy I'm dating now treats me the best and is so sweet and considerate, and not a selfish lover (which I've had to deal with before). I feel very lucky to have him as my boyfriend.0