is it true you are likely to go for someone who is at the same level of attractiveness as you? I read this somewhere earlier and just wondered how true that statement was
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I'd consider myself around a 7. While I feel like girls that are a 9 or a 10 are out of my league, surprisingly, I have dated and gone out with a few. Some of my friends have commented ever since High School that they are shocked at the level of quality of women that have been my girlfriends, some even upsetting their wives over it because they feel they are better looking than me. lol
I believe what helps me is my personality makes up for whatever insecurities I have about my looks. I know that deep down, I'm a great catch and I manage to present myself on first dates and in social gatherings with class and confidence while being completely true to who I am which is kind, polite and very respectful guy. I don't need to be the life of the party or exaggerate stories to make myself look good.
While I am shy and have a hard time initiating a conversation with beautiful women, once the ball gets rolling, I'm usually able to keep the opposite sex interested.
So, I'd say, in general, our confidence level does kind of go hand in hand with how we feel about our looks. Guys who lack confidence won't generally go try to pick up someone they feel is out of their league because long term, they fear insecurities will likely set in.0
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