As stated above, I'm 25. I haven't actually had a WHOLE lot of experience with guys, but there's a guy I kind of like and I know he's into me. But I JUST found out he's either 18 or 19. He certainly doesn't look that young. This feels kinda wrong. I don't think I should go out with him as anything more than just friends.
What are your thoughts?
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I have to agree with one point in that the age gap at that particular stage of life is iffy, at best. Someone that young hasn't had the opportunity to have the life experiences to relate to someone at 25. However, it comes down to how well you get along and how you feel together. Keep in mind that no one ever bats an eyelash as a 25 year old male dating an 18 year old female. I've dated older women before, and I can honestly say that it comes down to compatibility. I realize the cliche of saying "follow your heart" but it seems that if age is the only troublesome factor, you should start asking yourself what you share. It may sound stupid, but if it helps make a list, two columns, of the good/bad pros/cons you suspect to come out of pursuing a relationship with him. If you feel confident with the results, act upon them.1