I met this guy through one of my girlfriends, he's friends with her fiancé. We met for coffee last week and it was a blast, time flew by we seriously sat there just talking for 4 hours! So like the subject says.. he's 9 years older than I am which I don't see anything wrong with that. (I'm 23 he's 32)
Our date went so good he asked me out again and we're supposed to meet up tomorrow night. Even with the age difference, we see eye to eye on many things and we basically want the same things for the future.
Now I'm just nervous I guess because I've never dated anyone that old maybe by 4 years tops but not 9. We pretty much know a lot about each other from those 4 hours we spent talking lol, but I'm nervous about if he's really into me or not. I actually really liked our date and how great he was. (Why have a not dated older men before? Lol)
Older men out there 25+ any tips for this 23 year old here.. much appreciated.
Women out there that have dated older men, what was/is your experience like?
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I'm interested to hear more about what you think and feel about dating older men. I have actually been meeting girls who are almost 16 years younger than I am but we hit off. I'm starting to think all young girls are fun with bubbly personalities. The only fear I have being older is if we commit and start a relationship that I take more risk. I would like to believe that love trumps all but I think a big age gap has lots of challenges and obstacles ahead. I think older guys are more willing to commit so the ball is in your court young lady :)0