So recently I found out my boyfriend contacted this girl that was his best friend in the past... This girl lives in Pennsylvania and we live in Texas. She's 2 years older than him and the friendship bothered me cause she had called him "bby" which we all know stands for "baby". He said it was a playing thing but I know he wouldn't like it if I did the same thing... We fought two times over her and almost broke up. This time we fought and he's stopped talking to her. I trust this is the last time, but if he talks to her again we are through. Even tho we've been together for years. They had also fought bevause he insulted her and a couple of friends and he contacted her to apologize... I also contacted her and she said that she saw him as a little brother but I still don't like her... She has a semi popular minecraft server and he's a pro, in fact that's how they met. She's seventeen and about to he eighteen. He said he'd stop talking to her because he cared more about me but in the messages he put it as if he was only doing it because of me, but I liked that he told her he needed to get his priorities straight and that I was basically more important... In all hoesty it bothered me because he said she was cool and awesome and in the beginning he would talk about her 24/7... Plus she told him off and he said she was just "playful"... Asides from all the problems.. I feel ugly compared to her.
He acts like if its easy for me to get over it but it isn't...
I feel inferior to her white supremacy... She's beautiful and geeky and everything I'm not.
I'm shit and annoying and ugly and clingy and into my stupid Star Wars and soul sacrifice and comics... I am just ugly as fuck. I have small boobs and she has big ones and she has actual cleavage not my fake "I can see your boobs only when I'm above you shit". I just don't like myself and I can't help feel like she's better... I don't know maybe I am wrong cause he calls me beautiful and so have many.
- Stay mad and break upVote A
- Forget about her cause she's out of the picture alreadyVote B
- 2,4,&5Vote C
- Forgive him, but break up if it happens againVote D
- Act playful and have strong confidence (as in show it)Vote E
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I would say if you trust that that was the last time they talked then give the man the benefit of the doubt. He can't go back and change what was done. Trust your gut. If he does end up talking to her again then you already said it - the relationship would be over. For now just be assured that he likes you and was willing to put this pretty girl behind for you. You're special to him. Just remember that and try to reconcile =)1