My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 1/2 months. Currently we live 40-45 minutes from one another. And the problem is that I've been busy and haven't been able to see him much. He has been buming out because we aren't spending as much time together. Since I've been busy. He tries to keep busy, but he runs out of stuff to do. And currently I can't move in with him. So it has been putting a strain on our relationship. I've been trying to spend time with him when I can. I just feel like him and I are going to break up soon because I can't spend as much time with him.
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Distance always tests the strength of a relationship. It sounds like yours isn't meeting this test. At least you know that you aren't on solid ground generally, if he can't handle being apart for a few months. And not even totally apart, 40-45 minutes wouldn't be a problem if you were really 'together.'1