So girls do you realize that you lie when you say personality first? Or you even dont realize and I discover a new damn thing? Lets see how many of you will agree to date sumo fighter with GREAT personality or zack evron but BAD personality? Also how many of you would marry the sumo fighter? And how many of you would marry zack the bad evron efforn whatever
Honestly I think you make some guys have false hopes and its better to you to tell them the truth that appearance first and first and FIRST also I saw one guy had hair style from 1930 and he looked like gangster from 1930 but you didn't tell him change your style or your hair or spend some time on your appearance you all keep tell him personality personality personality
So personality ha do you know how much women spend every year on make up and plastic surgery? Google it you will find out
Honestly it's better when guys asks how to attract women and how to have gf tell him the truth that his appeared first also in case he has hair style from 1930 tell him to change it not tell give him false hope by saying personality :)
Back to the main question THE NICE SUMO FIGHTER VS ZACK EFFRON
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Okay. Wow. You seem to have misregarded the fact that guys also think looks first then personality second.
While it's probably the consensus that it's looks first, not all girls are like that.
I have to agree that us humans (girls and boys!) are drawn to someone with a prettier face then someone with a plain face. While it does suck thats how it is. You got to be honest to yourself to.
Who would you pick? A really pretty girl with a great personality, or an average girl who offered the same great personality?
You would mostly pick the pretty girl, let's me honest. Or you may say the average girl just to spite the status quo.
now, okay forcing more on this looks vs personality. Nowadays I feel most girls are just looking for a guy who looks like he actually takes care of himself and his appearance, thats not neccessarily the "pretty guy".
It's appearance first but a girl will not hesitant to dump a guy who had a terrible personality.
The reason people stay in a relationship is because their personalities are compatible. PERSONALITIES!! Nothing to do with looks here.
While it is looks that draw in people it isn't looks that make people stay.
Once you find the right girl she won't care how you look, as long as you have a great and compatible personality she will be hooked.
Sorry if this sounded like mean or targeted. (Not my intention!!)
Wish you all the best (:1