I've discovered that I can't date a girl unless she's into certain things, and not into certain thing's. I keep running into girls who claim they are, and slowly reveal they lied as time passes hoping my type wasn't set in stone... But it is, and this has resulted in me losing hope that anyone out there exists that would result in us being a good match together.
Personally I enjoy tv shows, movies, anime, books, and game's. I love a good storyline especially if the characters are memorable. I've noticed that I start to feel joy from seeing certain characters have these traits. My best examples are from the anime series Oreimo, and Lucky Star. They both have a female who does not match with what is known as the stereotypical female anime fan. They are viewed as strange to other characters for having tastes that are usually garnered by males rather than females. This trait they have is beyond enticing to me. The thought becomes the only thing I end up caring about when imagining the relationship I hope to be lucky enough to get into. I could care less if a girl is beautiful, or fit. If I can share views, and personal thoughts with a girl, and have her understand because she shares those same types of thoughts, and view's... To be able to indulge in a conversation with her about things that you just can't with a friend. It's all I can think about...
I just can't seem to find proof a girl like that exists. Even in fiction I really can only find those two examples of that personality... I know people say "Everyone is different, and there's someone out there for everyone" but.. Is there? Is everyone really so different? Lately it feels like personality traits have a norm, and anyone outside that norm is deemed as wrong. That person gets looked down on for it. So perhaps it's just that people hide who they are, and are scared as I am to be myself in front of someone else... So figured I would ask here.
Thanks in advance to anyone who has read this.
The answer is yes. Extremely rare though. Just knowing girls who are that unique, and rare is enough to make me glad though. Humanity does have some gems among the bland!~