was seeing this guy for 3 months but then he got weird after we were intimate, and we didn’t talk for 10 days. So we have been talking again since last week. Before I would focus on him a lot and not me. When he didn’t reply to a text or didn’t text me I would get anxious, and I would text him. Now it seems the tables have been turned. He texts me and said he hasn’t heard from me all day, and I must not like him anymore. And how he has been replaced. He does not reach out to me all day and then close to the end of the day or night he will text. Now he is acting insecure but I would think if it really bothered him so much he would pick up the phone or ask to see me. Unless its his pride and ego. As far as I am concerned, I am not in a relationship with him, and unless I see him make more of an effort then he really has no right to complain. But it never fails, if I don’t text him then he texts me end of the day offended that I didn’t text him or think of him. Obviously I need to be blunt with him. But I find it funny how quickly his tune changed when I backed off. I didn’t intentionally ignore him. I just figured if he isn’t making an effort then why should I? a few texts isn’t making an effort in my book.
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Hmmm are you with my ex? Haha.
My ex would be there for me, text me, tell me im beautiful etc. And then go cold, as if he dropped out of existance. Long story short I got sick of the game and would stop talking as well. If he isn't going to put any effort forth then neither am I.
One night he came over completely hammered and spilled his feelings all over me. Said he knew he didn't treat me right and that he ignored me to keep me interested.
I've learned, its not worth it. Its just a headache. They just want the chase. There is nothing you can really do to fix it, he would have to fix himself. I would drop all contact!0