When I go out on dates with women, I am a gentlemen and I try to be engaging and also listen to my date... but they never seem to want to go on a 2nd date with me.
I am a little shy, and perhaps my social skills need polishing.
When I talk to women, they say they want a man who can hold a conversation?
That is kind of vague. What do you mean when you say this?
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It's basically when you can make a conversation out of anything. I mean, if you ask her something, don't just end the convo there, but keep going, let it flow, so you'll probably end up talking about something totally different from what you started talking about, but the transition was smooth, it wasn't forced.
You shouldn't seem like you're interrogating her, it has to have flow. Talk about anything you want, but be careful to not hit any red buttons, there are some topics you better not touch on a first date.1