I used to be very active on some dating site a year ago. I met some really wonderful women but never dated anyone. I just used to have fun conversations. Later i realized it was a waste of time and all together stopped it forever. I now feel a little alone but i wanna focus on my career much and so have decided bot not to date anyone for at least 3 years. I do have some female friends and enjoy a lot with them. But i sometimes feel the need of a gf.
Is my decision of remaining single for 3 years correct? I am 25.
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I think its actually a good idea. If you focus on yourself and being the best you chances are you will find a person in that time frame. You dont have to actively seek a partner or girlfriend but just make sure that you ENJOY your time off from dating and partners.. you dont want to be miserable and resentful. I think its more about your mindset than anything. I dont believe in soulmates.. there are many people we can end up with and make a life with so by you focusing on yourself and your goals you will attract people who want the same and eventually that could lead to finding a mate in the future. The trick is not thinking about it too much.0