Okay I need some help! There's this girl who I totally like, and have for a while. We talk all the time at school and after school, and I know she doesn't just think of me as just a friend and I'm pretty confidant that she likes me back, so sooner or later I'm going to end up telling her I like her (aka once the stars align and I get some guts) but the thing is I've never told a girl I like her before, so I have no idea what I'm doing! When I tell her, does that mean we are dating or what? Like what's the difference of telling her I like her, and asking her out? And when would these two things happen? What do I do when I tell her I like her? Because if you ask someone how do I tell her they'll say dude just tell her, but there's never anything about what you say after! If you can't tell I'm pretty nervous about this, and I'm not really too much of a confidant guy, so please help me out here! Any opinions are appreciated thank you!!
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Well, you could just tell her... I know we've been friends for awhile, and I've come to really like you a lot. Then ask her if she wants to go out with you, like dinner and a movie. Actions can speak just as loud as words.
Or you can just see a movie together if your budget doesn't allow you both. After you say I like you, dating sort of comes afterward. showing interest in spending more time with her, gives you an edge too.
If you can't do it face to face, write her a letter and tell her you've always been a little shy and let her know how you feel. Ask her to meet up some time and maybe get her a single flower with the note to be sweet or romantic.
If you feel this is something you wouldn't do, it's best to find your own way of letting her know. But also remember, a face to face encounter will leave her with answering you right away, rather then think about it.0