I take a long time to warm up to people and really be myself with them. This works fine for friendships and all but not for dating. I feel like I scare off a guy at first because I hate small talk and seem to come off as talkative at first, but I'm not at all quiet once I get to know a person.
So I end up just sleeping with guys I like just because I don't actually have to talk much for that. Once I sleep with them I get sick of them and no longer even like them. But what I really want is a relationship but I have no idea how to start one?
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First thing to do, is to resist the urge to sleep with them. Once you're able to accomplish this, you can gradually work on your personality, so that you don't 'scare away' guys anymore.1